You’ve been a BlogTalkRadio host for five years now. Congratulations! What keeps you on the network?
Alan: Yes, I recently celebrated five years on the BlogTalkRadio Internet Radio Network (BTR). I started on BTR on May 29, 2007, but I was actually going to quit at one point in mid-to-late August of 2007 because a number of my invited guests were flaking out on me and other high profile celebrity guests were rejecting my invitations. I always give credit to you Danga, and your buddy David a.k.a. “Dr. Blogstein” for showing me and my show much love and support back in early-to-mid October 2007 and encouraging me to keep my show going. In a nutshell, it is my listeners that keep me motivated to do my show year after year. I have had many listeners tell me that a number of my episodes have genuinely helped them improve their love life, sex life, and/or overall social life. I have had other listeners tell me that my show is the highlight of their week. As long as there are men and women, and particularly single men and women, continuing to benefit from listening to my show, I will continue to be motivated to provide them with entertaining and informative discussions and interviews.
I remember having a conversation with you about your book, “Oooooh . . . Say it Again,” before you even decided to write it, and I recall you having some reservations about it. What happened to make you comfortable enough to publish it?
Alan: Actually Danga, you were one of the women who first put the idea in my head to write and publish my third paperback, “Oooooh . . . Say it Again: Mastering the Fine Art of Verbal Seduction and Aural Sex,” even though later, I modified the structure of the book. When you and I initially discussed the idea, I was simply going to discuss my love for erotic, kinky phone sex, and chronicle many of hottest epiosdes of phone sex with women and include dialogue from those conversations. I was initially reluctant to do that for two reasons: 1) I did not really want to ‘kiss and tell’ about a lot of my phone sex experiences with women, and 2) I was lightheartedly worried about how my aunts, uncles, and other family members would react to it. Later, I decided to make it more of a “Self-Help” type book, but in Part Two of the book, I do describe some of my erotically explicit conversations with women I have met over the years. I have received nothing but four and five star reviews on ‘Say it Again’ on Amazon.com and in personal email messages.
I read that you have phone sex with about 70 women a year! What’s up with that?
Alan: (Laughs) Yes Danga, that is true. Starting with around 1992 or 1993, up until now, I would approximate that I have engaged in phone sex with roughly about 1,500 – 1,600 women. Some men and women are surprised by this comment, but phone sex is actually my favorite form of ‘casual’ sex. I really do not care for casual physical sex. I hate wearing condoms. Absolutely cannot stand wearing condoms. When you engage in casual physical sex though, you almost have to wear condoms in order to prevent yourself from being infected with a sexually transmitted disease (STD) and/or prevent yourself from getting a woman pregnant. Let’s put it this way: If you gave me a choice between having physical sex with one particular woman one hundred-plus times within the context of a long-term monogamous relationship, or engaging in phone sex with that same woman one hundred-plus times, I would easily choose physical sex. Conversely, if you offered me a choice between having casual physical sex with a woman one, two, or three times (while wearing a condom), or engaging in hot, kinky phone sex with that same woman one, two, or three times, 80-90% of the time, I would actually choose phone sex. I love listening to a woman masturbate. That is a ‘fetish’ of mine. If I say so myself, I have a ‘talent’ for getting women sexually aroused using my phone voice and conversational skills. Actually, about one-fourth of my phone sex conversations are phone sex “threesomes” (i.e., I will have two women on the phone at the same time masturbating for me). And Danga, since you are a heavy proponent of safe sex, what sex is safer than mutual masturbation?
Dangrous Lee’s Final Thought: Actually you have to be with the person to mutually masturbate each other, but yes, masturbation in any form is safe and enjoyable 😉
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