Ask Dangerous Lee: How Risky Are Blow Jobs?

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Q: How risky are BJs (blowjobs) ? Like if I were to do it, how can I make sure I don’t catch anything?

– Anonymous

A: Unprotected BJs are very risky. It’s best to use a flavored condom for protection. If you have unprotected oral sex, don’t swallow. Be sure to check the goods before you put your mouth on it, protected or otherwise. Oral sex presents the lowest risk, but it’s still risky. Anal is the most dangerous form of unprotected sex and then vaginal. If you allow him to cum in your mouth don’t hold it in, spit it out immediately. Also, don’t brush your teeth before or immediately after.

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365 Days of Dangermas: Day 108 – Rain Rain Go Away!

DANGERMASLOGODay 108 – April 18, 2013:

Highlights of The Day

  • I really shouldn’t complain about the rain because we need it and April showers supposedly bring May flowers, but at this point I feel like I am going to have flowers growing out of my ass with the amount of rain we are getting. It’s also causing flooding issues for some people and that is never cool.
  • My car only stopped on me once today, but I won’t feel comfortable driving it until it’s looked at by a mechanic. It’s looking like that won’t happen until next Tuesday. I would take it in to my usual place, but I am hoping for a discount from a family referral….send good vibes my way please!
  • I administered an HIV test to someone I have had sex with. Awkward! He’s negative, so that’s awesome!
  • Senia took part in a school musical today called, “I’m With The Band”. They performed songs like: “Dream On’, “Hall of Fame”, “Lean On Me”, and “Surfin’ USA”. It was godawful but cute at the same time.

The program for the musical is in the Dangermas tree 🙂

If you’d like to donate items to the Dangermas tree, please view our wishlist for ideas, or you can send ornaments or other light weight items to:

Dangerous Lee

PO Box 7317

Flint, MI 48507

365 Days of Dangermas: Day 66

DANGERMASLOGODay 66 – March 7, 2013:

I got the pilot for the TV show as the host and we will be shooting soon. I will keep you updated as the project goes along. I’m excited, nervous, and scared, but hopeful. I tested a young man for HIV today and he’s positive. It always makes me sad to tell someone that they’re HIV positive, but I am glad that he was tested and knows his status so that he can live a healthy life. A condom goes in the Dangermas tree today just for him.

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365 Days of Dangermas: Day 53

DANGERMASLOGODay 53 – February 22, 2013:

I don’t have anything for the Dangermas tree today, but I had a great day. Slept in as usual, ran a few errands, finally got a couple pair of shoes back from the repair shop, had dinner at Red Lobster with my mom and daughter and saw Dark Skies with my very good friend, Tunde Olaniran. It was pretty damn good! Have a Dangerous weekend 😉

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Dangerous Lee

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Flint, MI 48507

365 Days of Dangermas: Day 52

DANGERMASLOGODay 52 – February 21, 2013:

I had a full day without much sleep and I am very geeked up right now but still tired as hell. This incense is burning for a good cause 🙂 but only partially because it has to go in the Dangermas tree! One highlight of the day is that I was able to test a client and myself for HIV. We are both negative! Yay us! I haven’t tested anyone in over a year so I was out of practice and afraid I would make a mistake, but my co-worker Vernell helped refresh my memory and it was just like riding a bike!

If you live in Genesee County, please visit Wellness AIDS Services Monday – Thursday from 9am until 6pm for FREE HIV testing and free condoms. Call 810-232-0888 for more info and tell ’em Dangerous Lee sent ya..or I might just cya there!

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If you’d like to donate items to the Dangermas tree, please view our wishlist for ideas, or you can send ornaments or other light weight items to:

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Alana Nicole Sholar: Living An Exceptional Life With HIV

How did you react when you found out you were HIV positive?

First, I’d like to share where I was at that point in my life to help give some understanding as to why I reacted to the news of having HIV the way I did.  I am a transgender individual born in Kentucky in the early 1960’s.  As explained in my memoir, “Hung in the Middle: A Journey of Gender Discovery,” I had no idea why I was ‘different’ from all the other Kentucky farm boys and had lived my life in hiding – even hiding from myself, not wanting to admit there was something ‘wrong’ with me.  It wasn’t until my late 30’s that I learned the word ‘transgender’ and realized that was the answer to ‘me.’

Once I made the discovery for myself that I am a transgender male-to-female, I had to tell my family.  I figured that would be the most difficult task I’d ever have to face in life.  However, I was wrong, because within a couple months of coming out as transgender, I then had to tell them I had just been diagnosed as HIV positive.

For me, the first sign was bruising.  When my doctor tested for a possible cause, he informed me the bruising was the result of a blood disorder, but additional tests were necessary for an exact diagnosis.  I had an uncle who died of leukemia so I got it in my head the additional tests would reveal I had leukemia.  I immediately began getting myself prepared mentally to be told I had leukemia with very little time to live. 

But then I got the call from my doctor who said, ‘it’s HIV.’  I was prepared to be told I had leukemia and would be dying soon, but I wasn’t prepared to hear ‘HIV.’  I wanted to be dead and not have HIV.  Being told I was HIV positive was worse than if I had been told I had leukemia.  Then, on the heels of being diagnosed with HIV, I was diagnosed with yet another life threatening disease – Cryptococcus antigen.  Although rare in humans, what made it ‘life threatening’ for me was my low immune system caused by the HIV.  I couldn’t handle it.  I decided taking my own life would be the best answer.  Of course, I wasn’t successful at that attempt, and the entire experience is detailed in my memoir.

After an extreme series of medications I won the battle against the Cryptococcus antigen, but, for months I continued to clean and disinfect everything I touched – the toilet seat when I’d stand up, the dishes and utensils I’d use when eating, I even quit taking showers with my wife.  I was afraid of infecting someone close to me.  It took nearly a year before I finally understood what my doctors had said over and over – having HIV is NOT a death sentence, and people are more of a threat to my health then I am to them.

Did friends and family treat you differently?

No not at all! My mother was just happy it wasn’t leukemia.  When I told her I’d been diagnosed with HIV the first words out of her mouth were, “Well, you can live with that.  Magic Johnson has had HIV for years, and he seems to be doing pretty good.” (Thank God for Magic Johnson’s example.)  I found myself being more couscous with my friends than the other way around.  I was the only person who seemed to have a problem with it.

I look back and think how crazy it was for me to think death was my answer.  Now I look at my grandchild, wife, family, and wonderful life and I am really happy that I managed to make it through to the other side without doing something stupid.  Look at all the things I would have missed out on.

How is your health today?

My health is great.  I take my meds as prescribed, have learned the importance of positive thinking, and today the HIV virus is undetectable via blood test.  If I get hit with a cold it might take me a bit longer to get over it, but any problems I do face are small and easily handled.  My blood work has impressed my doctors. 

People are afraid to be tested and there are others who don’t take HIV seriously because it is treatable.  What is your advice for these people?

Getting tested is the best thing anyone could do for themselves.  Like any disease, the earlier you realize you have a disease, the easier it is to control.  I had never been tested prior to seeing the bruises and then it was almost too late.  When the initial blood work came back I had ZERO blood platelets and my doctor told me if I got so much as a small cut I would bleed to death before I could ever reach a hospital — there would be nothing anyone could do to stop it.  Of course, it was being diagnosed with HIV and getting on the right meds that brought the blood platelets back to normal.

Not taking HIV serious is a HUGE mistake.  Once diagnosed with HIV life changes in many ways.  For one thing, I feel it’s very important to tell possible sex partners that you have HIV.  Not telling someone before having sex with them is wrong and something I would NEVER do.  Also having HIV makes you more prone to inopportune infections – infections that are no big deal to someone with a proper immune system.  What many people don’t understand is that it’s not the HIV virus that people die from but things such as pneumonia or other complications which are dangerous for anyone with HIV because of having a compromised immune system.

My suggestion to anyone who thinks HIV is ‘no big deal’ would be for them to talk with someone who has been diagnosed with HIV and is living with it.  Also, if you read the info proved with the meds being used to treat HIV you find they can be hard on your system.  So if you think HIV is no big deal, think again.  Yes, you can live a good life after being diagnosed with HIV, however, you’ll never live the ‘same’ life as before being diagnosed.

I’d also like to let you know Chapter 1 can be read FREE and videos from various events can be viewed, as well as my “Interview with the Author” video at www.hunginthemiddle.com.

Janine Brignola: Living an Exceptional Life with HIV

When you were diagnosed with HIV, how did you react?

My first thoughts were quite literally that I would die. I thought I am the worst mom in the world. I am carrying a baby inside of me that will not only get HIV from me but will not have a parent either, I thought of all the things I had done wrong in my life and this had to be the worst. I wanted to kill myself because I thought that would be better but I couldn’t do it and kill my baby too. After this initial feeling I then felt angry, not at the man who had knowingly and purposely infected me but at myself for being so naive and careless with my body and sexual habits that I allowed him to not wear protection with me, that I trusted him not do something to hurt me, that I believed him when we talked about STDs and HIV before we ever had sex, but mainly because I had been abstinent for two years and I had made a promise to myself that I would not carelessly have sex with another person ever again until we were tested together. I felt like I was so stupid!

How is life living with HIV?

Dealing with any illness is a growing process. You go through the same or similar stages as people go through when someone dies, but having experienced both the loss of my sister and being diagnosed with HIV; I can say that the process of learning to cope with the illness has been harder. When you loose someone you love it hurts like hell but there is closure in some weird way, even if it is as unexpected as my sisters death was. When you find out you have to live with a chronic illness that the majority of people on this earth deem to be a dirty disease, that people assume or insinuate you did something to deserve, or that people want to pretend isn’t a real and serious problem, it is like going from having open doors to brick walls.

I mean that if you try to live a life where you do not publicly disclose then you can’t tell anyone or only people you know without a doubt you can trust one hundred percent, the thing is though HIV is like a juicy bit of gossip and I have never met anyone that doesn’t have some kind of gossip in them, no matter how small. Then you are constantly thinking they know, oh God. Someone looks at you and you think they know, someone jokes about STDs or HIV, and you think they know, you go to a club or bar and feel like everyone is looking at you because they all know. At least for me it caused me to be so paranoid in part because I have always been a keep it real type of girl. Coming out and taking back that power, telling my own story, that is something that no matter what no one can take away, degrade, or tell me how to do and most importantly it is freedom from the bondage of lies.

My everyday life is being a really normal person that everyone seems to think cannot or should not be living in a place where the stigma and everyday ignorance about my illness determines how I am treated and being caught between two worlds of normal mommy to activist/advocate extraordinaire. On one hand I get to be this awesome HIV ass kicking chick and on the other I am like the way normal, covered in tattoos mom next door living in Nebraska and being like yeah so what I have HIV, fuck you! I end up being like a party favor for people, it’s like wow she must be super cool, and I totally am but I am like boring mom too. Up until about seven or eight months ago I didn’t really go out or have a life and people would meet me and try to hang out with me and be like she is so boring because I would always decline invitations or I’d hang out with them and I think I was never quite what people would expect.

So, basically, having HIV will weed out the not so good friends, the smucks who are looking for a little booty, and it will teach you, if you allow it to, that it really is okay to be yourself and to love yourself, mistakes and all.

Do people treat you differently when you tell them you are HIV positive?

Yes, I have more reactions than I could even tell you about but I will choose the major ones. I have had men be total jerks. I regularly am told by people who work in the field of HIV/AIDS that I just don’t look like someone with it. I have been told by others living with the virus that I dwell on HIV because I choose to talk about it and educate people. I have had nurses and doctors treat me like crap, I have been told to kill myself, people on my YouTube channel are brutal, but my favorite is how my so called best friend acted when I found out I was positive. I was about three months pregnant and my “best friend” told me that I was selfish and should have an abortion because there was a .04% chance I could have passed the virus to my unborn baby, who by the way is five and negative.

What advice do you have for those that don’t want to be tested for HIV?

I would say that I totally understand and empathize with the fact that someone could be so scared that they would not want to be tested and that sometimes we feel like the fear of the unknown is better than the fear of knowing. It takes a lot of courage to face our fears. When you do you realize that not only was the fear silly but it is one of the most empowering things a person can do. You realize there is nothing you can not do.

And as far as the actual medical side of it goes you could think of it like this, do I want a disease that I could live an awesome, normal life with or would I rather allow a fear of knowing be the cause of what could kill me? The sooner you get tested and if it happens that you are positive it is better to know you have HIV and start meds if you need them or be in the care of doctors because you really can live with HIV. So wake up and go get tested, I mean do you want to be the cause of infecting others, do you want to be sick and miserable? HELL NO! You want to live and enjoy life AND YOU CAN. Knowing is better!

What advice do you have for those living unhappily with HIV?

I really hope this does not come across as being harsh but I am just one of those people that like to keep it real, that said there is nothing you can do to change the fact that you have HIV. Being mad about it or at the person who infected you, worrying about retribution, stressing about the mistake you made, asking “what if”; all of that will get you no where. You can not change that you have HIV. You will not wake up tomorrow without it. You will not have a normal life if you just pretend, so dwelling on all of that does nothing but stress you out, make you unhappy and make you hate your life. If instead you concentrate on the lessons you learned, the people you love, and the people who love you you’ll realize how beautiful life is. You stop taking things for granted and you stop worrying about your past mistakes. If there is someone in your life making you feel like you are less than, like you are damaged goods or if someone is just not loving you and treating you right don’t take that shit! Seriously!

There are so many people out there that are going through this and I promise they will help you, they will support you, I will help you. If you want advice about medical issues, if you want someone to listen who knows what you’re going through, anything at all you can e-mail me and I promise I will answer and do anything I can to help you (It may take me a minute to respond because I am a mom and have a really busy life but I WILL) speak_hiv@yahoo.com AND REMEMBER YOU HAVE VALUE, YOU HAVE WORTH, YOU ARE NOT A MISTAKE, YOU ARE PERFECT HOW YOU ARE,YOUWERE CREATED THAT WAY, AND NOBODY ELSE CAN BE YOU SO SHINE BABY, SHINE!

Terry Delonas: Living an Exceptional Life With HIV

When were you diagnosed with HIV and what was your reaction?

I was first diagnosed with HIV in 1986 and received an AIDS diagnosis in 1990. My reaction was panic, a sense of loss and fear since at the time it was a death sentence. I immediately went to local ASO’s and got involved in their support programs including volunteering when possible.
 
How do you make the most of living with HIV?
Living with HIV for me, is all about starting over, again and again.  Every time I have a severe health setback that causes me to lose weight, have a cancer surgery, have a bout of depression, miss the ability to work out and build stamina; I start again from where I am and rebuild my body or routine. Starting over after 8 cancer surgeries and two chemo series for Kaposis Sarcoma is about remembering what is possible from a renewed healthy routine of exercise, diet and social engagement. All anyone healthy or sick has in life is a window of opportunity to make the most of life.  Keep the window open as long as possible.
 
What advice do you have for those unhappily living with HIV?
Start over with whatever has worked for you in the past to build a healthy lifestyle. Baby steps at the beginning like just walking to the market instead of driving and adding to the effort as stamina builds does wonders.  If you have no experience with building a healthy life style, observe others who have and ask for their help in constructing your own personal healthy routine.  Get involved with a local ASO or go online to blog and seek advice.
 

Tell us about your Sit Relief product and how it came to be:

After suffering for a long time with Lipoatrophy and watching others with lipoatrophy sitting pain drop out of social opportunities, I decided to stop smuggling cushions into sitting venues like lectures and volunteer meetings and restaurants and invent something we could all wear to prevent sitting pain from a thin buttocks.  It took over 5 years of R&D and development, a clinical trial with 40 HIV patients,  and lots of favors from people in the garment industry but I eventually went to market with SitRelief Shorts.  I sell them online and have helped almost two thousand people with sitting pain lead a more normal life.  People absolutely love the Shorts!

Drummond Marais: Living an Exceptional Life with HIV

When were you diagnosed with HIV and how did you react?

I was diagnosed HIV+ at the age of 55, in 2005 – Strangely enough, the news came as no shock to me (perhaps I had subconsciously expected it?) and I refused to give in to the predictable ‘victimhood’ mentality…I did not see it as a ‘death sentence’ and continued living my life with a positive attitude;

Conversely, my life-partner, who was 46 at the time, did not handle the ‘news’ very well when he was simultaneously diagnosed in 2005…he experienced a period of deep depression and hopelessness, a mental attitude that gradually corrected itself during the following year as he embraced a more positive outlook.

In the states we hear a lot of negativity about HIV in Africa, how’s your life in Africa?

I don’t believe the current government of South Africa views HIV as a particularly high priority. There is definitely a lack of meaningful HIV medical research being done in this country. And although we have the world’s largest percentage-concentration of HIV+ ‘victims’ within our southern hemisphere population, the ART drugs (made freely available by the government) are often in short supply, so poor disadvantaged and indigenous patients occasionally have to go without treatment. Fortunately, my life-partner and I (both HIV+) receive our three-monthly ARV regimens through a US-AID sponsored organisation called ‘ANOVA – HEALTH4MEN’ which operates on a fairly small scale within a few of the major centres in this country. ART programmes are provided by this organisation free of charge, for which my partner and I are immensely grateful. However, there remains a great deal of social stigma surrounding HIV infection, especially within the outlying rural areas, and most people tend to keep their HIV status a private/secret matter.   Tell us about your book that highlights your HIV journey:

My book ‘A POSITIVE JOURNEY’ (published 2011, by Xlibris Publishers) is a part-journalised, part-narrative record of the emotional, spiritual and medical processes that my partner and I encountered after being simultaneously informed of our HIV+ status, back in 2005…it describes the evolving stages of our mental acceptance of the virus, my partner’s almost-fatal encounter with PCP and TB (which was subsequently ‘cured’), and our early ART treatments – my book contains a message of HOPEFULNESS to other HIV+ people, whilst attempting to alleviate some of the ignorance and social stigma that is propagated within our HIV ‘negative’ populace.

You’ve been on a HAART regimen since 2008, do you have a healthy T-Cell count?

Due to his chronic experiences with PCP and TB, my partner (now 52) went on to a HAART regimen late in 2008, with a T-Cell count of only 21 – his health has dramatically improved since then. His current T-Cell count is in the region of 230, with an ‘undetectable viral load’, and he leads an active, healthy life once again;

I am 61 years old, and only went on to a HAART regimen halfway through 2009, when my general health suddenly began to fail, with a T-Cell count of 48 – likewise, my health has since improved positively, although my current count is still just below 250…unfortunately, I have recently been obliged to cope with an ‘opportunistic’ invasion in the form of melanoma and lymphatic cancer, and because my T-Cell count remains so low, local oncologists will not even contemplate the use of Chemotherapy. So it seems probable that this particular disease (cancer) will finally be the cause of my demise.  

What advice do you have for those unhappily living with HIV?

HIV, just like any form of cancer, requires an extremely POSITIVE mindset…one cannot allow victimhood to take control of one’s consciousness – I offer a message of HOPE to those who are unhappily living with HIV…it should NOT to be viewed as a ‘death-sentence’. The amazing efficacy of ART treatments / HAART regimens is truly ‘miraculous’ and these drugs provide the HIV+ person with a ‘second chance at life’. But above all, a positive mental attitude is essential when living with HIV. My partner (52) and I (61) both continue to lead very FULL and ACTIVE lives…he enjoys full-time employment within the challenging realms of Information Technology – whereas I continue to work as a freelance actor, author and artist. Thanks to our wonderful relationship and sustained ART treatment, our lives are immensely fulfilling!

Janet Johnson: Living an Exceptional Life with HIV

Janet Johnson, State Peer Mentor, Alabama Department of Public Health

When were you diagnosed with HIV and how did you react?

I reacted like most everyone back in 1985, stunned, shocked and thinking I was going to die within 6 months to 2 years. So I decided to die high on drugs because I had just watched my lover of 5 years die completely blind, wasted away, out of his mind and cursing God and I didn’t want to die like that.  

Do you have any advice for those unhappily living with HIV?

You are still living. Get involved. There’s nothing you can do now about your diagnosis but you can help someone else not to receive the same diagnosis. Get out of yourself and help someone else know what to do to stay negative.

Did you lose loved ones because of your HIV status?

No, I have been very blessed in that area but I have known many people who have lost loved ones.  

How do you personally make the best out of living with HIV?

I educate others and share my story with others. I feel that is why God has left me here this long, to be a witness of His grace and glory and to let people know that today you don’t have to die from this disease and it doesn’t necessarily have to go on to become AIDS but you have to do your part. Test, know, and link to care. Stay out of risky behaviors, help others along lifes journey to understand that HIV is for life and there are certain things you have to do to keep from becoming infected. I am a messenger about the disease and I tell the world my story so that maybe I can reach just one person and maybe prevent them from becoming infected.

 

Ask Dangerous Lee – Would you have sex on a first date?

Q: Would you have sex on a first date?

Charles E.

Flint, MI

A: I never have, but that’s not to say that I never would. I think sex on the first date is okay as long as the people having sex are mature, honest, and have discussed what type of relationship they want to have after the initial sexcapade is over. So if I do have sex with someone on a first date that doesn’t mean that I would have sex on a first date with every man. Some people click sexually right off the bat, others do not. I also hope that before the first date that they have taken the time to get to know each other by having intimate conversations and spending time with each other casually.

In my opinion, the most important thing is that people are having safe sex. We are sexual beings and having sex is normal, contrary to some beliefs. However, there are many bad things that can come from good sex, such as, unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases like syphilis, gonorrhea, and HIV.

Got questions?

 

 

Week 1: The Dangerous Lee Diaries

First things first: Subscribe to DangerousLee.Biz (check the sidebar) and get a FREE ebook copy of my book, Keep Your Panties Up and Your Skirt Down!

Many of you have asked me what The Dangerous Lee Experiment is about and as soon as the official promo film and logos are complete I will debut my experiment to the world.

Essentially The Dangerous Lee Experiment came to life as I realized that even with a day job, I am living at the poverty level. Because of this, I have decided to leave the work force as an employee. It’s time to take the Dangerous Lee brand to the next level and that requires me to step out on faith. I’d rather be poor and working for a better life for myself and my daughter by fulfilling my dreams rather than punching someones clock.

I am a writer. I am an artist.  I need to create as a free spirit. I weighed the pros and cons of leaving behind a steady pay check with becoming a “starving artist” and the pros outweigh the cons. I also know that I won’t be “starving” for long. Besides, I have always taken risks in life. I moved to New York City with less than $100 to work in the music industry many years ago and that taught me to never be afraid to believe in myself. 

I’ve been unhappy and unsatisfied with my life for a very long time and after much reflection, in this horrible economy, I am happy to be working on The Dangerous Lee Experiment. I can’t wait to share it with you!

Having said all that, I will continue to work with Wellness AIDS Services on a contractual basis in the areas of HIV testing and counseling, National HIV Testing Day events, and The Red Masquerade Ball.

My artwork on display at Wellness AIDS Services of Flint

Highlights of the Week:

1/3/12 – Breakfast at Bob Evans with my mom after being up all night long. I tried the Pot Roast Hash and it was delicious, just not enough pot roast! My mom, like many of you are very concerned with my well-being in regards to my decision to leave behind a job to work for myself. After explaining to her what The Dangerous Lee Experiment is all about and all the work that I am doing she has calmed down.

I also took two garbage bags filled with clothes, shoes, and toys to Goodwill and I also threw in a copy of my book, Keep Your Panties Up and Your Skirt Down.

Goodwill Bags

1/4/12 – Slept most of the day because I was up all night (again) then in the evening I went to the library, dropped off a copy of my book for an upcoming podcast interview with the Creative Alliance of Flint, stopped by my moms house for a visit and to help her clean, and reluctantly had McDonald’s for dinner.  I was up all night reading My Friend Michael by Frank Cascio feeling lethargic, but unable to sleep. I loved reading that Michael Jackson has smoked weed and got his freak on from time to time. Good book! I don’t know what my problem is in regards to losing sleep. I think my adrenaline levels are very elevated. My memory is suffering terribly from the lack of sleep and I am crabby, so I need to get my sleep schedule back on track

1/5/12 – Didn’t do much today outside of the home. I slept all day (of course) but I don’t feel well rested at all. I love sleep, so something has gotta give in the area of getting Zzzzz’s.

1/6/12 – My daughter got sick again so she stayed home from school and I got some rest. It was a slow motion day.

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Overall it was a good work week. I had tons of great guest bloggers that have provided me with content well into next week and I am spewing out creative ideas that I can’t wait to share. Also, as I write this DangerousLee.Biz has a global traffic rank of 463, 045 and a U.S. traffic rank of 45, 444. Not too shabby!